grass-widow

grass-widow

A grass-widow enjoys a quiet afternoon in her garden.

Definition
  1. Noun:
    • A woman who is separated from her husband: "grass-widow" refers to a woman whose husband is temporarily absent, often due to work or travel, or who has been divorced or separated from her husband.
    • Historical usage: Originally, it denoted a woman who had an illegitimate child or who lived apart from her husband, but in modern usage it typically implies temporary separation rather than permanent abandonment.
Usage Examples
  • (A woman left alone due to her husband's work assignment.)
  • (A woman separated from her husband by divorce.)
Advanced Usage
  • "Grass-widow" as a social status: The term can carry a slightly outdated or informal tone, and is less common in contemporary language, where "separated wife" or "divorced woman" is more typical.
    • In the 19th century, a grass-widow was often viewed with suspicion by her community. (Historical context of social stigma.)
Variants and Related Words
  • Grass-widower (n): The male equivalent — a man separated from his wife.
    • He was a grass-widower while his wife attended a conference abroad. (A man left alone due to his wife's absence.)
Synonyms
  • Separated wife: a woman who lives apart from her husband but is not divorced.
  • Divorcée: a woman who has been divorced.
  • Deserted wife: a woman left by her husband (often implies abandonment).
Related Idioms
  • Widow's weeds: black mourning clothes worn by a widow; not directly related but shares the "widow" root.
  • Grass widow's walk: a historical term for a woman's lonely vigil while her husband was away at sea or on business.