curry favor
Verb (transitive, usually used with "with"): To attempt to gain approval, advantage, or special treatment from someone, especially a superior, through excessive flattery, obsequious behavior, or attentiveness. The action is often viewed as insincere and self-serving.
The verb phrase "curry favor" is typically followed by the preposition "with" to indicate the person whose approval is being sought. It describes deliberate, often obvious, attempts to ingratiate oneself. * The junior analyst was transparently currying favor with the department head by always agreeing with him. * She avoided currying favor, preferring to earn respect through hard work. * He hoped to curry favor by volunteering for extra assignments.
- Some students try to curry favor with professors by complimenting their lectures excessively.
- The politician was accused of currying favor with wealthy donors by supporting their interests.
- It was obvious he was currying favor when he started bringing the manager coffee every morning.
- Historical Note: The phrase originates from the Old French "estriller fauvel," which referred to grooming a chestnut horse (Fauvel) that was a symbol of duplicity and cunning in a medieval satirical poem. The phrase entered English as "curry favel," which later morphed into the more meaningful "curry favor."
- Nuance: The term carries a strong negative connotation, implying the flattery is transparent, manipulative, and devoid of genuine respect.
- Fawn (verb): To display exaggerated flattery or affection. (e.g., Servants would fawn over the king.)
- Kowtow (verb): To act in an excessively subservient manner. (e.g., He refused to kowtow to the demands of the corrupt official.)
- Sycophancy (noun): The behavior or practice of a sycophant (a person who uses flattery to win favor).
- Obsequious (adjective): Obedient or attentive to an excessive or servile degree.
- Ingratiate oneself
- Suck up (to) (informal)
- Brown-nose (vulgar slang)
- Toady
- Flatter
- Butter someone up: (Idiom) To flatter someone, especially to prepare them to be asked a favor.
- He tried to butter up his boss before asking for a day off.
- Play up to someone: (Phrasal Verb) To try to gain someone's favor by flattering them or conforming to their wishes.
- She played up to the critics in hopes of a positive review.
- seek favor by fawning or flattery
- This employee is currying favor with his superordinates