ingratiation
/in,greiʃi'eiʃn/
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Definition
- Noun:
- The act of gaining acceptance or affection for oneself through deliberate, often subtle, flattery or pleasing behavior: Ingratiation refers to the strategic effort to make oneself liked or approved by others, typically through calculated compliments, favors, or conformity.
Examples of Usage
- Noun:
- His constant ingratiation with the boss was obvious to everyone in the office.
- The politician's speech was a transparent attempt at ingratiation, filled with excessive praise for the local community.
- She saw through his flattery and recognized it as mere ingratiation.
Advanced Usage
"Self-ingratiation": A specific form of ingratiation focused on making oneself appear favorable.
- His self-ingratiation during the interview involved repeatedly mentioning his volunteer work.
As a social or psychological strategy: In social psychology, ingratiation is studied as a tactic of impression management or interpersonal influence.
- The study examined ingratiation as a common strategy for career advancement.
Variants and Related Words
Ingratiate (verb): To bring oneself into favor with someone by deliberate effort.
- He tried to ingratiate himself with the new manager by always agreeing with her.
Ingratiating (adjective): Intended to gain approval or favor; charming or flattering in a calculated way.
- She spoke in an ingratiating tone that made some people suspicious.
Ingratiatory (adjective): Another adjective form meaning intended to ingratiate.
- His ingratiatory comments were not well-received.
Synonyms
- Flattery: Excessive and insincere praise.
- Fawning: Displaying exaggerated flattery or affection.
- Sycophancy: Obsequious behavior aimed at gaining advantage.
- Toadying: Behaving in an obsequious way to gain favor.
Related Phrases
- "To curry favor": To seek to gain favor through flattery or servile behavior. (This is a phrase with a similar meaning but is not a phrasal verb of "ingratiation").
- He was always currying favor with the senior partners.
Related Idioms
- "Butter someone up": To flatter someone, especially to gain a favor.
- He's just buttering up the teacher so he can get an extension on the project.
Noun
- the act of gaining acceptance or affection for yourself by persuasive and subtle blandishments
- she refused to use insinuation in order to gain favor