patronising

Thân thiện

A manager gives a patronising smile to a junior employee during a meeting.

Definition

Adjective: 1. Displaying a superior attitude; condescending: Behaving or speaking in a way that shows you consider yourself superior to someone else, often while pretending to be kind or helpful.

Usage

The adjective "patronising" describes an attitude, tone, or behavior. It is used to criticize someone for talking down to others, often in a way that is meant to be helpful or friendly but actually reveals a feeling of superiority. - It typically modifies nouns like tone, attitude, smile, behavior, manner, or comment. - It is often used in contexts discussing interpersonal communication, criticism, or social dynamics.

Examples

• His patronising tone made it clear he thought we couldn't understand the complex instructions.
• I hate it when salespeople give me that patronising smile.
• She offered some patronising advice, as if I had never done this before.
• The manager's patronising attitude towards the interns created a negative work environment.

Advanced Usage

• "to be patronising towards someone": To consistently act in a condescending manner toward a specific person or group.
  • The professor was often accused of being patronising towards students from non-academic backgrounds.

Variants and Related Words

• Patronisingly (adverb): In a patronising manner.
  • He spoke patronisingly to the new team members.
• Patronize (verb): The action from which the adjective is derived. Its primary meaning is to treat with an apparent kindness that betrays a feeling of superiority.
  • Don't patronize me; I know what I'm doing.

Synonyms

• Condescending: Having or showing a feeling of patronizing superiority.
• Demeaning: Causing someone to lose their dignity and the respect of others.
• Snobbish: Relating to or characteristic of a snob (someone who believes they are superior).
• Supercilious: Behaving or looking as though one thinks one is superior to others.

Antonyms

• Respectful: Showing deference and esteem.
• Humble: Having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance.
• Deferential: Showing respect and esteem due a superior or an elder.

Related Idioms and Phrases

• "To talk down to someone": This phrase is a verbal equivalent of being patronising.
  • He always talks down to his assistants, which is very patronising.
• "To treat someone like a child": To behave towards someone in a way that is patronising, implying they are not mature or competent.
  • Stop treating me like a child with your patronising instructions.

Học thuật

Adjective

1. (used of behavior or attitude) characteristic of those who treat others with condescension

Từ đồng nghĩa

• arch
• condescending
• patronizing