unforgivingness
Definition
- Noun:
- Lack of willingness to forgive: "unforgivingness" refers to the quality or state of being unwilling or unable to forgive others for perceived wrongs or offenses. It implies a persistent resentment or refusal to let go of grievances.
Usage Examples
- (Her inability to forgive caused ongoing tension.)
- (The leader's refusal to forgive errors made people afraid.)
Advanced Usage
"to show unforgivingness": to demonstrate a refusal to forgive.
- He showed unforgivingness even after a sincere apology. (He did not accept the apology despite its sincerity.)
"a spirit of unforgivingness": an attitude characterized by lack of forgiveness.
- A spirit of unforgivingness can poison personal and professional relationships. (An attitude of refusing to forgive can harm connections.)
Variants and Related Words
Unforgiving (adj): not willing to forgive; showing no mercy.
- The judge was unforgiving in his sentencing. (The judge showed no leniency.)
Unforgivably (adv): in a manner that cannot be forgiven.
- He behaved unforgivably, ruining the event. (His actions were beyond forgiveness.)
Synonyms
- Rancor: deep-seated bitterness or resentment.
- Vindictiveness: a strong desire for revenge.
- Implacability: inability to be appeased or pacified.
Related Idioms
Hold a grudge: to maintain resentment against someone for a past wrong.
- She holds a grudge against him for the insult, showing her unforgivingness. (She continues to resent him.)
Bury the hatchet: to make peace and forgive (antonym of unforgivingness).
- To overcome unforgivingness, they decided to bury the hatchet. (They chose to forgive and reconcile.)