philander
/fi'lændə/
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Definition
- Verb:
- To engage in casual, often insincere, romantic or sexual affairs, typically without serious commitment or emotional involvement. It implies a pattern of behavior, especially by a man, involving flirtation or brief relationships.
- To behave or talk in a flirtatious or amorously playful manner.
Usage and Examples
- Verb:
- He was known to philander with many women, never settling down with any of them.
- The politician's career was damaged by rumors that he would philander while on business trips.
- She accused him of philandering after finding flirtatious messages on his phone.
Advanced Usage and Nuances
- The term often carries a negative connotation of irresponsibility, deceit, or a lack of seriousness in romantic engagements. It is frequently used to describe the behavior of someone who is already in a committed relationship.
- "to philander with someone": This is the most common construction, specifying the object of the flirtation or affair.
- The CEO was accused of philandering with several junior employees.
Variants and Related Words
- Philanderer (noun): A person, typically a man, who philanders.
- He gained a reputation as a notorious philanderer.
- Philandering (noun/adj): The act or habit of philandering; characteristic of a philanderer.
- His philandering ways eventually led to a divorce.
Synonyms
- Flirt: To behave as if attracted to someone without serious intent. (Less serious and potentially more playful than ).
- Womanize: (For men) To have many casual sexual relationships with women. (Very close in meaning, often used interchangeably with ).
- Dally: To act or move slowly or waste time; can also mean to flirt or trifle with someone's affections.
Related Phrases and Idioms
- "To be a philanderer": An idiom describing someone who habitually engages in philandering.
- Everyone knew he was a philanderer, so no one was surprised by the scandal.
- While "philander" itself is not commonly used in phrasal verb constructions, the related noun "philanderer" is standard in phrases like "a confirmed philanderer" (someone whose philandering behavior is well-established).
Verb
- talk or behave amorously, without serious intentions
- The guys always try to chat up the new secretaries
- My husband never flirts with other women
- have amorous affairs; of men
- He has been womanizing for years