self-torture
/'self'tɔ:tʃə/
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Definition
Noun: * Self-imposed distress: The act of causing oneself mental or emotional suffering, often through excessive worry, guilt, self-criticism, or dwelling on negative thoughts.
Usage
- "Self-torture" is an uncountable noun. It describes a state or process, not a single instance.
- It is used to describe a psychological state where a person is their own source of anguish.
- It often implies that the suffering is unnecessary and could be avoided.
Examples
- His constant replaying of the mistake was pure self-torture.
- She realized that worrying about things she couldn't change was a form of self-torture.
- The author described the character's guilt as a slow, deliberate self-torture.
Advanced Usage
- "To engage in self-torture": To actively participate in thoughts or behaviors that cause oneself distress.
- By constantly comparing herself to others online, she was engaging in self-torture.
- The concept is often discussed in psychology and self-help contexts concerning negative thought patterns like rumination.
Variants and Related Words
- Self-flagellation (n): Literally means whipping oneself; used figuratively to mean severe self-criticism or blame. It is a stronger, more vivid synonym for "self-torture."
- Masochism (n): In a general (non-clinical) sense, it can refer to deriving pleasure from one's own pain or humiliation, which can overlap with the concept of self-torture.
Synonyms
- Self-punishment
- Self-torment
- Mental anguish (self-inflicted)
Related Idioms and Phrases
- "To be one's own worst enemy": To cause problems for oneself through one's own actions or thoughts. This idiom captures the essence of self-torture.
- With his constant negativity, he was being his own worst enemy.
- "To beat oneself up (over something)": To criticize or blame oneself harshly.
- Stop beating yourself up over a minor error.
Noun
- self-imposed distress