silent treatment
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Definition
Noun: - An aloof refusal to speak to someone you know: A form of non-verbal punishment or social ostracism where a person deliberately and consistently avoids speaking to or acknowledging another person, typically someone they know well, as an expression of displeasure, anger, or a desire to control.
Usage
The "silent treatment" is used to describe a specific, often hurtful, interpersonal behavior. It is a conscious decision to ignore another person by not speaking to them, not responding to their attempts at communication, and acting as if they are not present. It is generally considered a passive-aggressive tactic.
Examples
- After their argument, Mark gave his partner the silent treatment for three days.
- She was upset with her friend, so she resorted to the silent treatment instead of discussing the problem.
- Receiving the silent treatment can be more painful than a heated confrontation for some people.
Advanced Usage
- "To give someone the silent treatment": This is the most common verb collocation, describing the act of initiating this behavior.
- He decided to give her the silent treatment until she apologized.
- "To be/get the silent treatment": This describes the state or experience of being ignored.
- I've been getting the silent treatment from my roommate all week.
Variants and Related Words
- Stonewalling (n/v): A broader communication tactic involving a refusal to cooperate or engage, often used in conflicts or negotiations. While related, "stonewalling" is not limited to silence and can include obstructive verbal responses.
- Ostracism (n): The general act of excluding someone from a group or society. The silent treatment is a specific form of interpersonal ostracism.
- Cold shoulder (n, idiom): A display of indifference or disregard. While similar, the "cold shoulder" can involve brief, curt communication, whereas the "silent treatment" is defined by a complete absence of speech.
Synonyms
- Social snub: A deliberate act of ignoring or showing disrespect.
- Freeze-out: An act of excluding someone from social interaction or activities.
- Cutting someone dead: An idiom meaning to completely ignore someone you know, as if they do not exist.
Related Phrases
- To ignore someone pointedly: To deliberately and obviously disregard someone.
- To give someone the cold shoulder: To treat someone with intentional unfriendliness or indifference.
Related Idioms
- To send someone to Coventry: (British English idiom) Meaning to refuse to speak to or associate with someone; a form of group ostracism very similar to the silent treatment.
- After he broke the team's trust, they sent him to Coventry.
Noun
- an aloof refusal to speak to someone you know