wheedler
/'wi:dl /
Definition
Noun: A person who attempts to influence or persuade others through the use of flattery, smooth talk, coaxing, or gentle and insistent entreaty.
Usage
The term "wheedler" describes a person whose characteristic behavior is to coax or cajole others to get what they wants. It often carries a slightly negative connotation, implying the persuasion is somewhat manipulative or self-serving, relying on charm rather than substantive argument.
Examples
- The child was a skilled wheedler, always managing to get an extra cookie from his grandmother.
- Don't be such a wheedler; just ask for what you need directly.
- She saw through the salesman's friendly act and recognized him as a practiced wheedler.
Advanced Usage
- The term can be used in both literal and figurative contexts to describe someone who uses verbal softness to achieve an end.
- It is often applied in contexts involving requests for favors, money, or special treatment.
Variants and Related Words
- Wheedle (verb): To use endearments or flattery to persuade someone.
- He tried to wheedle his way into the exclusive party.
- Wheedling (noun/adj): The act or characteristic of coaxing.
- She ignored his wheedling tone.
Synonyms
- Coaxer
- Cajoler
- Flatterer
- Sweet-talker
- Persuader (though this is more neutral)
Related Idioms and Phrases
- To wheedle something out of someone: To coax or persuade someone to give you something.
- The reporter managed to wheedle the information out of the reluctant witness.
Noun
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someone who tries to persuade by blandishment and coaxing
