mortifying

/'mɔ:tifaiiɳ/

Thân thiện

She felt a mortifying blush spread across her cheeks.

Definition

1. Adjective:
   • Causing intense shame, embarrassment, or humiliation: Describes something that makes one feel deeply ashamed, humiliated, or vexed.
   • Causing awareness of one's shortcomings or failures: Describes an experience that makes one painfully conscious of their own flaws or inadequacies.

Usage and Examples

• Adjective:
  • The public criticism was a mortifying experience for the politician. (The experience caused the politician intense shame.)
  • It was mortifying to realize I had been talking with spinach in my teeth. (The realization caused me deep embarrassment.)
  • His mortifying failure on the simple test made him question his abilities. (The failure painfully highlighted his shortcomings.)

Advanced Usage and Nuances

• Psychological Impact: "Mortifying" often implies a psychological wound to one's pride or self-esteem, not just a temporary embarrassment. The feeling is typically internal and deeply personal.
  • The mortifying memory of her childhood mistake haunted her for years.
• Formal and Literary Context: The word is more common in formal writing or descriptive narratives than in casual conversation, where "embarrassing" or "humiliating" might be used more frequently.

Variants and Related Words

• Mortify (verb): To cause someone to feel mortified; to subdue or discipline (the body or desires) through self-denial.
  • His rude comment mortified his mother.
  • Some monks mortify the flesh through fasting.
• Mortification (noun): The feeling of being mortified; a cause of mortification.
  • She felt a deep sense of mortification.
• Mortified (adjective): The state of feeling intense shame or embarrassment.
  • He was mortified by his own mistake.

Synonyms

• Humiliating: Causing a loss of pride or dignity.
• Embarrassing: Causing a feeling of self-consciousness, shame, or awkwardness. (Note: "Mortifying" is generally stronger than "embarrassing.")
• Humbling: Causing someone to become less proud, often by making them aware of their limitations.
• Shameful: Deserving or causing shame.
• Chagrining: Causing annoyance or distress due to failure or disappointment.

Antonyms

• Gratifying: Giving pleasure or satisfaction.
• Honoring: Conferring honor or respect upon.
• Flattering: Pleasing to one's vanity or self-esteem.

Idiomatic Expressions and Phrases

• A mortifying experience/blunder/moment: A common collocation emphasizing the event that caused the feeling.
  • Forgetting the client's name was a mortifying blunder.
• To one's mortification: Used to introduce a cause of shame.
  • To her mortification, she realized she had given the wrong presentation.

Học thuật

Adjective

1. causing awareness of your shortcomings
   • golf is a humbling game
2. causing to feel shame or chagrin or vexation
   • the embarrassing moment when she found her petticoat down around her ankles
   • it was mortifying to know he had heard every word

Từ đồng nghĩa

• demeaning
• humbling
• humiliating
• embarrassing