unlovable

/'ʌn'lʌvəbl/

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She felt unlovable after the argument.

Definition

Adjective:
- Incapable of being loved or inspiring affection: Describes a person, quality, or thing that does not attract or merit love, fondness, or deep liking from others.

Usage

The adjective "unlovable" is used to describe a person or, less commonly, a characteristic or object that seems to lack the qualities that would make someone feel affection or love towards it.
It often carries a subjective or empathetic tone, suggesting a lack of connection rather than active dislike.
It is typically used in a predicative position (after a linking verb like "be," "seem," "feel") but can also be used attributively (before a noun).

Examples

Advanced Usage

Psychological/Emotional Context: Often used in discussions of self-esteem, attachment, and interpersonal relationships.
- Therapy helped her overcome the deep-seated belief that she was unlovable.
Literary/Critical Analysis: Used to describe characters or artistic creations that deliberately lack charm to serve a narrative purpose.
- The author's genius was in making an unlovable protagonist the vehicle for a profound moral lesson.

Variants and Related Words

Unloved (adj): Not loved or cherished. (Note: "Unloved" describes the state of not receiving love, while "unlovable" describes the perceived inherent quality of not being worthy of love.)
- The unloved toy sat forgotten on the shelf.
Lovable (adj): Having qualities that attract love or affection. (Antonym)
- His lovable clumsiness made everyone smile.

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Antonyms

Idioms and Phrases

(To feel) inherently unlovable: A phrase expressing a deep, often irrational, personal belief that one is incapable of being loved.
- Despite her friends' assurances, she struggled with feeling inherently unlovable.

She felt unlovable after the argument.

Adjective

incapable of inspiring love or affection
- she was in some mysterious way...unlovable-Joseph Conrad

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