flatter

/'flætə/
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flatter

She flatters her boss with compliments before asking for a raise.

Definition
  1. Verb:
    • To praise someone excessively or insincerely, often to gain favor or advantage: The core meaning involves giving compliments that are not entirely honest, typically to please someone or for personal benefit.
    • To make someone appear more attractive or favorable than in reality: This meaning applies to things like portraits, photographs, or descriptions that present a subject in an idealized way.
    • To please or gratify the vanity of: To give a sense of pleasure or satisfaction, especially to one's self-esteem.
Usage and Examples
  • Verb (Praise insincerely):
    • He flattered his boss constantly, hoping for a promotion.
    • Don't flatter me; I know the painting isn't that good.
  • Verb (Make appear more attractive):
    • That portrait flatters her; it hides all her wrinkles.
    • The soft lighting in the room flatters everyone.
  • Verb (Please or gratify):
    • The invitation flattered her immensely.
    • I was flattered by their request for my advice.
Advanced Usage and Idioms
  • Flatter to deceive: To create a favorable impression that is misleading and not borne out by reality.
    • The team's strong start flattered to deceive; they lost most of their remaining games.
  • Flatter oneself (that...): To believe, often with excessive pride or satisfaction, that something is true about oneself.
    • She flattered herself that she was an excellent public speaker.
Variants and Related Words
  • Flatterer (noun): A person who flatters.
    • Be wary of flatterers; they often want something.
  • Flattering (adjective):
    • (Of an action) Full of praise, especially when excessive or insincere. He made some flattering remarks.
    • (Of a thing) Making someone look more attractive. She wore a very flattering dress.
  • Flattery (noun): Excessive and insincere praise.
    • His flattery was so obvious it was almost insulting.
Synonyms
  • Butter up: To flatter someone excessively.
  • Adulate: To praise or admire excessively or slavishly.
  • Fawn (over/on): To give exaggerated flattery or affection.
  • Compliment: (This can be sincere or insincere; "flatter" often implies the latter).
Antonyms
  • Insult: To speak to or treat with disrespect.
  • Criticize: To indicate the faults of someone or something.
  • Belittle: To make someone or something seem less impressive or important.
flatter

She flatters her boss with compliments before asking for a raise.

Verb
  1. praise somewhat dishonestly