indulgent
/in'dʌldʤənt/
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Definition
- Adjective:
- Excessively lenient or permissive: Willing to allow someone to have or do what they want, especially when this is not good for them. Often implies a lack of discipline or strictness.
- Characterized by kindness, tolerance, and forgiveness: Showing a readiness to overlook faults or to be generous and understanding.
- Self-indulgent (a related but distinct concept): Satisfying one's own desires freely. (Note: This is listed under 'Variants and Related Words' as it is a compound form.)
Usage and Examples
- Describing a person's behavior or attitude:
- The indulgent teacher never gave homework.
- She has an indulgent smile when she watches her grandchildren play.
- Describing a relationship where one person yields to another's wishes:
- His indulgent parents bought him every toy he asked for.
- They were indulgent towards their guests, offering them more food and drink.
Advanced Usage and Nuances
- "To be indulgent of/towards something": This prepositional phrase specifies the object of the leniency.
- The critic was surprisingly indulgent of the film's minor flaws.
- He is far too indulgent towards their constant complaints.
- Contextual Connotation: The word can have a slightly negative connotation, suggesting excessive leniency that may lead to negative consequences (like spoiling a child). However, it can also be neutral or positive when describing tolerant forgiveness.
Variants and Related Words
- Indulge (verb): To allow oneself or another to enjoy a desired pleasure.
- He indulged his love for chocolate.
- Indulgence (noun): 1. The act or practice of indulging. 2. Something enjoyed as a treat or pleasure.
- She allowed herself the indulgence of a long bath.
- Self-indulgent (adjective): Excessively gratifying one's own desires.
- His self-indulgent spending left him in debt.
Synonyms
- Lenient: Merciful or tolerant, especially in disciplining others.
- Permissive: Allowing freedom, especially in social or sexual behavior.
- Tolerant: Showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior one does not necessarily agree with.
- Forgiving: Ready and willing to forgive.
Antonyms
- Strict: Demanding that rules are obeyed.
- Severe: Strict or harsh in attitude or treatment.
- Austere: Severe or strict in manner or attitude.
- Stern: Serious and unrelenting, especially in discipline.
Idioms and Phrases
- "To indulge someone (in something)": Although a verb phrase, it is the direct action related to being indulgent.
- She indulged her son in his passion for astronomy.
- "An indulgent smile/laugh": A smile or laugh that shows tolerant amusement or affection, often overlooking something foolish or minor.
- He gave an indulgent laugh at their childish antics.
Adjective
- being favorably inclined
- an indulgent attitude
- tolerant or lenient
- indulgent parents risk spoiling their children
- too soft on the children
- they are soft on crime
- characterized by or given to yielding to the wishes of someone
- indulgent grandparents